What am I doing wrong? new to college trying to make friends
一位大学新生在建立人际关系方面遇到困难。尽管他积极询问他人兴趣并保持微笑回应,却很少有人对他表现出兴趣。他参加各种社团活动,但常被忽视或排除在外。尽管他外表不错且努力提升自己,读过许多社交技巧书籍仍无明显改善。与年长者相处融洽,但同龄人似乎对他缺乏兴趣。 2025-8-31 15:49:12 Author: www.reddit.com(查看原文) 阅读量:7 收藏

I’m a freshman in college ive always had trouble building connections with people. I always ask them about there interests and about them in general I always smile and respond to what they say but very rarely do people show interest in me back and I often will join different groups in college and it will be like I’m part of the group but then normally they make plans without me I’m not ugly I’m slightly above average I do try and stay in shape and take care of my appearance I’ve read basically every book on social skills and charisma but I just feel like nobody reaches back to me often I e always gotten along really well with my teachers and people who are 10 years older than me but for what ever reason people in my age range rarely seem interested in me as a friend any advice?

I don’t think anybody dislikes me I just feel like I’m an outsider all the time or an after thought often


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