I’m 19, 3 semester into a bigger college. I know the “ college experience “ can be an exaggerated but that’s all I thought about having since I started applying, yes I know this can sound degenerative.
3 semesters in and have no friends, have yet to go out, bars, party etc. anything. It sucks im sad lonely and all of the above. I’ve tried joining clubs and nothing happens. In highsxoppl I was fine I had friend group from like elementary school and it was the opposite people would join us and our circle just got larger and eventually started going out, having good times. I have nothing here. And clearly gave some social anxiety, in addition I tried rushing but chicken out last second because I knew no one. They have rush again and it would be my 4th semester but at that point worried I’m to old.
Honestly anything will help.