Ways to get much better social skills?
刚上大学的新生感到社交困难,尽管主动接触他人但回应率不高。过去曾因极具魅力而广受欢迎,但在经历抑郁后情况有所改变。同时患有ADHD,在社交场合有时会打断他人。尽管如此,仍希望获得提升社交技巧、思维敏捷度及话题选择能力的建议。 2025-10-16 06:5:32 Author: www.reddit.com(查看原文) 阅读量:0 收藏

Im in my first semester of college everyone’s nice but nobody really reaches out to me I am reach out to them and try to some respond some don’t I am very outgoing and extroverted but nobody seems interested in me I had a group of friends at this university but they unfollowed me and I don’t know why I ask people open questions about themself I make eye contact I show interest I smile I’m decent looking I’m good at reading body language and peoples micro expressions im very extroverted and outgoing

I am not good at coming up with quick comebacks

Or thinking of what to say in response sometimes or thinking of new and interesting topics I find sometimes

I used to be extremely charismatic and had more friends but it seems I’ve lost that when I had depression for a period I’m fine now

I also have adhd so I sometimes interrupt but I am much better at not interrupting than I used to be and always continuing

any advice or tricks to get better at socializing, thinking fast and figuring out what to say


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