Im in my first semester of college everyone’s nice but nobody really reaches out to me I am reach out to them and try to some respond some don’t I am very outgoing and extroverted but nobody seems interested in me I had a group of friends at this university but they unfollowed me and I don’t know why I ask people open questions about themself I make eye contact I show interest I smile I’m decent looking I’m good at reading body language and peoples micro expressions im very extroverted and outgoing
I am not good at coming up with quick comebacks
Or thinking of what to say in response sometimes or thinking of new and interesting topics I find sometimes
I used to be extremely charismatic and had more friends but it seems I’ve lost that when I had depression for a period I’m fine now
I also have adhd so I sometimes interrupt but I am much better at not interrupting than I used to be and always continuing
any advice or tricks to get better at socializing, thinking fast and figuring out what to say